I can't edit the above comment, but pretend I edited it to link to the DW versions of those pages instead as follows:

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Oh, except I do know why. It's called the Forbidden Comment Threads.

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Actually, about a year later I found her on Facebook and added her as a friend, and she added me back, but she was in a relationship. In fact, she's married now. What I'm more worried about is other people not forgiving me about things I've said about her years ago. I'm not even sure that the subject line of that entry I just linked to is any better.