See, this is why the argument is making me so depressed - I'm not even sure whose side to be on. On the one hand, shy_james could be an alright guy who's just being misunderstood because he didn't word his posts well, but on the other hand, he could actually be sexist. I don't think there's any use arguing until he says something that either further proves he's alright or further proves he's sexist. But, then again, that's probably a stupid statement that's gonna make the argument completely restart here.

Every single comment thread in my journal turns into the ones in those posts now. For that reason, I've even thought a little about leaving LJ altogether...